Wednesday, February 4, 2009

An action plan to get your ex back

To get your ex back,you definitely need a plan,not just any plan,but a good one at that.
1.You need time for the reality of the break up to dawn both on you and your ex.You both need time to think about what went wrong,and you need time to know the best way to go about getting your ex back.You need to give your ex space.
2.Its time to think about why your ex called it quits.Analyze what could have gone wrong,admit your mistakes and decide to become a better you.Look out for those qualities your ex saw in you when you were dating him and bring those qualities out.
3.Be in control of your emotions.Before thinking of going back to meet your ex,you have to be in control of your emotions.No matter how your ex might react when you meet,you are already in charge of your emotions and can handle whatever your ex does.
4.It's time for you to try and arrange to meet with your ex.This is the most important part as your ex may wonder why you want to meet him or her.Explain you will want to meet in nicer circumstances than you were the last time and to try and clear some things with him or her.
5.Try as much as you can to be your best before meeting with your ex.Looking good will boost your esteem and give your ex an impression that you changed.Your outside appearance can give your ex a feel of how you have changed inside you.When you meet with your ex,stay calm and in control.Meeting with your ex in an unfamiliar restaurant or fast food eatery is advisable as it gives you room to talk about something new.
6.Admit your faults and talk about the steps you have taken to have a happier and healthier relationship with him or her.Don't ask for a second chance,but let him understand that you have changed and won't mind if there is a second chance to prove it.
7.Give your ex time and space to think over what ever you have discussed.Keep busy with your job and put your mind off your ex for some time.But be optimistic that he will call you soon.
These are just some steps on how to get your ex back but more of it is on the "Magic of Making up"when you Click Here!

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